Refreshing a Happy Heinys Diaper Tutorial

I have a new tutorial over on my new blog: How to fix a worn, but still usable Happy Heinys diaper with Velcro closures. 
Check it out here. 

My Stash

So, I wanted to do a picture of my FULL stash for awhile and doing the flats challenge a couple of months back afforded me that opportunity.  Being as busy as I am, I haven't been able to post the pictures til now, which means that I've also acquired a couple more diapers that aren't pictured.  Doh!
Here's my pockets (with one or two AIOs and AI2s):

I have them stacked by brand. I'm SUCH a dork!
Top row: Tweedlebugs, Haute Pockets, Anna Banana Designs, and Baby Kicks
Second row: Two stacks of bumGenius! (14 total), 4 Happy Heinys, 6 Fuzzi Bunz (i've since gotten the Spearmint as well), 5 Rump-a-rooz
Bottom row: 2 Knickernappies, 2 Smartipants, 1 Rocky Mountain, 1 Grovia AIO, and 1 Katydid (now called Oh Katy!)
Diaper Junction has also sent me the Best Bottom diaper to film since I took that picture.

Here are my fitteds and my wool (with one fleece cover thrown in):

The above picture is JUST the fitteds.  There are only three that I bought.  The rest I, or a friend made.  The back row is all my T shirt fitteds (for sale in my Etsy shop)
Front row: Happy Heiny's Sherpa fitted, a bamboo fitted flat from a friend, a Bum Covered Diapers fitted, and a bumGenius bamboo fitted.
And here are my fitteds with my wool:

Most of the wool is hand knit, but I did upcycle one cranberry wool sweater into a soaker, a skirtie and some longs.

Here are my prefolds:

The top right is a Hemp babies prefold.  The white ones are Chinese prefolds, and the unbleached ones are Indian, unbleached prefolds.  To some of them, I've added snaps, and to the one on the top right, I added leg elastics so it looks like a fitted when it's on my baby, but dries, folds, sizes like a pre fold :-D.  After taking this picture, I got four more prefolds from Diaper Junction to use for this video: They're sized medium and large, and both bleached and unbleached.

After washing all my flats after the Flats Challenge, I took a photo of them and my PUL covers.

Here they are, five Osocozy unbleached birdseye cotton flat diapers, four flour sack towels from Target, and 12 large Diaper Right unbleached flat diapers from Diaper Junction that are featured in three videos on Diaper Junction's youtube channel.

Finally, here are my PUL covers.  I don't have very many, though now I do have the Best Bottom diaper that can be used for only the cover should I choose to do so.

Top: size 2 Thirsties Duo wrap with aplix, Medium Thirsties wrap, a Green Earth diaper cover (I believe.
Bottom: Bumkins, size medium, Thirsties duo wrap size 2 with snaps, and one of my own diaper covers with PUL and an outer layer of my college T shirt.

I also have the Fluff Stash app now for my iPhone which is a nice way of organizing my stash for my personal reference and for swaps and sales should I choose to use it for that.  Here are a couple of pictures of that.  You should try it out for yourself!

Using Flats Already!

Three days hadn't passed since the flats challenge before my daughter had a severe diaper rash.  It was most pitiful because she's able to verbalize her pain now.  I brought her home from church on Wednesday evening and as I pulled her out of the car and she started whining-- "It hurts.  Mommy, diaper hurts!"  I rushed into the house and took the diaper off as fast as I could, quickly holding a cool, baby wipe over the area for a couple of seconds and then applying Grovia's Magic Stick (which hurt her even more as it was being applied.  Then, because she hadn't had a rash during the entire flats week (well, she had a little irritation at one point that disappeared in an hour), I pulled out the flats.  I used my tried and true night-diapering flat solution--a kite fold with a trifold--and then added a wool cover.  The rash had all but disappeared by morning, which was a blessing because it meant I could send Bunny to daycare with pockets and not flats. 

Flats Challenge week has also helped me realize that I like line drying even without the clothesline I so crave.  I haven't sunned my diapers once since cloth diapering--not until the flats challenge when I dragged my drying rack outside because I didn't want to wait the extra time it would take them to dry downstairs.  Once I realized that dragging the rack from the basement to the patio wasn't that bad, I was encouraged to try it again.  So, I dried my pockets--inserts and all--on the rack in the sun yesterday and let me tell you, those inserts never dried so fast! My basement is a pretty dry place because we have a dehumidifier, but it would still take them over 24 hours to be line dried down there.  Outside, with strong sun and some wind, it took about 2.  I was shocked and delightfully surprised.  Now, we are planning on putting up a clothesline soon, but in the meantime, I'm not waiting to sun my diapers until that happens. 

Flats Challenge: All done!

I'm sorry I'm so late on this post.  If you were keeping up with my posts on the Flats Challenge at the Cloth Diaper Blog, you'll realize that the flats challenge week also happened to be one of the busiest weeks my house has seen in a long time! We had a record amount of visitors and my husband was tearing up the back yard to make a patio so I had extra food to cook, dishes to wash, and laundry to clean, plus I spent more time  sweeping, mopping, and straightening the house up, plus I was hand washing the flats and then spending 1-2 hours every evening writing about it for Diaper Junction.  Remember, I'm not a Stay at home Mom, so I did this all when I got home from work every day at 12:30PM.

Bunny felt the pressure and the stress, and also noticed that she wasn't getting as much one on one time with Mommy (and Daddy) that she wanted, and became very winy and clingy.  I can't blame her.  Of course, I wanted to spend more time with her, but because I was taking care of so many people.  There were some days I just wanted to collapse and give up and cry.  I was thankful that even though the visitors meant more work, they also meant more people to help out if necessary so at least I was allowed a moment of peace here and there while someone else took the load. 

When everyone finally left on Monday (Memorial Day) evening, I just lay in the back yard in a hammock with my daughter and we watched the birds go by and it was the most blissful 15 minutes I'd spent all week.  Bunny's mood change was almost immediate.  She suddenly relaxed and became more like her typical self, and ever since I've been reveling in the uninterrupted moments I get to spend with her as has she. 

So, I'm not sure that my view on flat diapers is not unbiased by how difficult the week was.  Currently, I just don't want to touch them or look at them and I'm happy to stick to all my pockets and AIOs.  But I think if I could separate the flats challenge from the rest of the week--like if it had happened at a different time--my views on using them would tilt more to the positive side. 

I wrote a list of pros and cons I discovered about flats and I forgot two of them (well, two that I can think of at the moment). Another pro would be that flat diapers are so very trim that Bunny was able to wear some pants that never went over her little fluffy butt before.  Another con would be that I didn't feel that I was able to win people over to cloth diapers by changing her diaper in public when using flats.  Flat diapers seem to scare people off more than the diapers I typically use. 

If I were to put myself in the financial position that such a lifestyle would be necessary in order to buy other necessities that my child/ren needed, I would definitely use flat diapers and hand wash them all the time.  It was hard, hard work, but I'll do anything for my  little one/s.  (I use the plural not because I'm expecting, but because I hope to have more kids one day).  But I'm from a specific culture/class of people that has that mindset and that perspective on life.   I don't know much about the different classes, but I've heard a little bit from Ruby Payne's studies while being educated as a teacher.  She summarized the three classes with three sentences based on food.  The poverty/lower class (I hate to use lower with a people group!) uses the phrase, "Did you get enough?" in regards to food.  The middle class will say, "Did it taste good?" and the upper class will say, "Does it look good?" She also told the story of a group of teachers who pooled their money together to buy a refrigerator for a family who was known not to have one.  The kids in that family were subsequently absent for the next few weeks.  When they came back, the teachers were worried and asked, "Where were you?" They answered, "Oh, we sold the refrigerator and went to Disney World!"    So, based on the little I know of Ruby Payne's studies, I don't know that the lower class would consider cloth diapers an option.  But, I don't consider myself an expert.  I personally have an acquaintance who has two children, and a boyfriend in and out of work and who has already been evicted from her apartment and is in dire straits financially, but when a friend suggested cloth diapers to her she said, "I'm not that desperate!" So, I'm just not sure that the culture of people in our country who need to use and hand wash flat diapers would consider it an option.  And I'm not trying to judge at all.  I'm just trying to put myself in someone else's shoes. 

So, conclusions: If it were me, I'd do it.  I would hand wash flat diapers all the time to keep food on my children's plate.  But I just don't know that it's something people who are turned off by cloth would consider.  I hope I'm wrong. 

Once the dust settles at my house, I think I'll be using flat diapers more often than I ever did before considering the challenge.  I've certainly learned a lot and found lots of trick that have made me more successful at using flat diapers.  I can fold them and fasten them so that they are pretty snug, and I've learned little tricks to add to the tried and true folding methods that allow them to fit my daughter better.  I like them.  I really do.  But I think it will be a couple of weeks before I voluntarily use them again!

On a side note, having all my other diapers washed and waiting allowed me to do something I've never gotten to do since starting to cloth diaper--take a photo of my entire cloth stash! Actually, the stash is so large that I took three photos of four of the different groups of diapers I have (pockets/aios/ai2s, prefolds, wool covers, fitteds), and once they're clean, I'll take a photo of my flats and my PUL covers as well.  Soon, I'll post them for those of you who are interested.  Also, I'll need to start organizing and categorizing all my dipes for the Fluff Stash app I recently got for my iPhone from Diaper Junction.  I purchased it already but have yet to transfer it from the computer to my phone.  We'll see if my hubby has time to do that for me today when I get home from work.  :-D

Flats and Handwashing Week: Day 2

With family over, I've found it kind of hectic trying to get all the cooking and cleaning done (that's now multiplied) while doing the flats and hand washing challenge, but it's working well enough.  You can read more about that here, at the Cloth Diaper Blog. 

This morning was the best, though...in that I have a funny story to tell! After frantically running around this morning before leaving for work to clean my dishes, sweep and mop the kitchen floor, make lunch (in the crock pot) and then get some laundry done and the newly dried flats folded, I changed Bunny's diaper.  I put her in a kite fold with pins and no cover--which I've done QUITE frequently before with no problems--to help clear up a bit of redness.  Coupled with Grovia's Magic Stick for diaper rash, it cleared up after just an hour or so, but I put her in a second coverless flat just to be sure.  Then I'm in the kitchen chopping up vegetables and I look on the floor to see something small and brown just under my daughter's feet.

"That's funny!" I thought, assuming it was a chocolate teddy graham,  "I just swept and mopped!" 

I looked closer and realized it was poop.  Yikes! I hadn't put the diaper on her snugly enough and she was dropping a trail of turds behind her everywhere she went! I picked it up in a tissue and threw it away and then ran hastily to her bedroom to change her into a covered flat while my sister walked around the kitchen inspecting for more turds (she found three) gagging all the way.

It was kinda funny.  It's moments like these when I miss fitted diapers because you can wear them coverless without worrying about finding poop all over your house! I can say one thing--I'm so SO glad we don't' have carpeting in our kitchen or living room! This might have been a MUCH longer story if we did.

For more information on the Flats and Hand Washing Challenge, check out this post from Kim Rosas at Dirty Diaper Laundry.  

Tutorial: Cloth Diaper Friendly Pants out of Shirt Sleeves

Okay, today, I want to show you how to make the easiest baby/toddler pants ever out of an old long-sleeved shirt!  In fact, in total I think it took me the better part of 20 minutes--maybe 30.  It was so easy!

For this project you will need:
1) ONE long sleeved shirt.  The larger the baby, the larger the shirt should be.
2) ONE pair of pants to use as a pattern.
3) A length of elastic that is long enough to fit snugly around your baby's waist (plus seam allowance)
4) A sewing machine.


STEP ONE: Fold your pattern pants in half and lay them on the sleeve to get the length.  You'll want to cut about 1-2 inches higher than the pants to leave room for the elastic sleeve. Now, cut the sleeve off. Don't cut the crotch out yet. 

STEP 2: Lay the first cut sleeve over the second and cut it out as well.   

Step 3: Lay the pattern pants (still folded in half) over both sleeves, and cut out the crotch. 

STEP 4: To make more room in the bottom for yoru big fluffy diaper, lay both sleeves down next to each other with the crotch's facing each other and gradually cut a diagonal line from the middle of the front of each to the side.  This will give you more room in the butt. 

STEP 5: Open each sleeve at the crotch and sew together through the crotch with right sides together. 

Do NOT use your overlock stitch yet if the seams of your sleeves are on the insides of the legs.    I did, and found that it caused a bit of trouble when I tried to lay my seams flat.  If you placed the pants so that the pre-existing seams of the shirt were on the outer thigh, then you can use an overlock stitch. 

When you're done sewing the crotch together, your pants will look like this:

STEP 6: Now it's time to measure your elastic.   To get the right fit for your child, wrap the elastic around his/her waist until it's as snug as you want the waistband of the pants to be.  Then, add your seam allowance--about an inch altogether, or 1/2 inch on each side. 


STEP 7: Lay your elastic on the waist of your pants, and fold over to get the correct measurement for the sleeve (leaving 1/2-5/8 inch seam allowance)

  

 STEP 8: Sew the elastic sleeve down.  I did not pin, but it's probably advisable to do so. 

STEP 9: Thread your elastic through the sleeve. I use a safety pin at the end of the elastic to facilitate pulling it through. 

STEP 10: Sew elastic ends together.  Use a zig zag stitch to sew the ends of your elastic together. 

STEP 11: Admire and wear!!!

We're very pleased with Bunny's new pants. If I had it to do over again, I'd put the decorative stitching on the outer leg rather than the inner leg, but they fit well, have lots of room for her cloth diaper, and there is plenty of room for her to grow.

How I'm Preparing for the Flats and Handwashing Challenge!

Wow, the time is nearly upon us--May 23rd when 300+ of us will spend a week using only flat diapers and handwashing and air drying them.  It's kind of exciting! So how have I prepared?  I've practiced.  I've spent lots of time using different folds on Bunny and trying different combinations both for night time and day.  We've tried a bunch of different covers, and I've even made asked my husband to use them just once or twice (prepped and ready with a trifold in a cover).  I've hand washed them in my tub both in big groups at the end of the day, and one at a time to decide which I like better (I haven't decided).   I've line dried them outside on sunny days and air dried them inside when the weather wasn't the best.  And I've written about them and videotaped them for Diaper Junction's Cloth Diaper Blog.  Ultimately,  I feel totally and completely prepared for this challenge.  What's best is that I've discovered some things about using flats that I really, REALLY like!

1) They're trim so there's less to wash.

2) Handwashing a couple flats a day lets me procrastinate on the rest of my diaper laundry because it doesn't build up as quickly.

3) They're so soft that I find myself wanting to use them more often on Bunny, especially if she's got a rash.

4) Poop doesn't have to be an awful experience under a flat diaper because there are ways to keep it contained.

5) I kind of like folding them!

6) I feel really good about my daughter wearing flats because they're so gentle. 

As the week approaches, I'm finding myself with a bunch of un-anticipated guests coming (which is great) but with so many people around to change Bunny's diaper, I'm going to have to prepare even more by giving them a tutorial on how to use the trifold in a cover.  And just in case someone slips up or has to change a diaper in a stupor of 1am exhaustion,  I'm preparing to hide all the other diapers until the weeks is over. 

Honestly, though.  I can't wait.  I'm excited to do something different, something with a purpose, and to join with 300 other moms that I may never meet in person to discuss yet another parenting decision.  I'm praying that the survey results that come from this challenge can be used to actually help families in need.  Yeah, the flats challenge is a fun activity and all, but helping struggling parents out is the main reason I want to be involved.